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THE MISFIT - Part 1


So, what is "normal,”? It’s basically whatever society considers acceptable based on their beliefs and the standards they've set. But does that really make sense? And where does our right to be ourselves fit into all of that? And then there's homosexuality - do people just wake up one day and decide to be gay? How do we wrap our heads around this?

There isn't some magic gene that determines someone's sexual orientation. Your DNA can't tell if you're gay or straight. It's not just about biology, psychology, or life experiences - sexuality isn't a conscious choice you make, it's just a part of who you are. No one really knows for sure what causes someone to be gay, just like how you know you're straight.

Some people still believe being gay is a choice, often pointing to religious reasons, but that's not entirely accurate. Old prejudices and fears play a big role here. Even if we acknowledge that sexuality exists on a spectrum, many still think it's fixed and unchangeable, but our desires can shift based on our experiences.

When it comes to faith and relationships, some seek guidance from their beliefs. Ancient Hindu texts acknowledge that being gay can be natural, advising parents on how to handle it, without condemning it. Being homosexual is just a part of who someone is and should be accepted without judgment.

I remember when I first came out as gay, someone actually asked me when I decided to be gay, which seemed pretty ridiculous. It's like asking when you started liking a certain food or drink - it's not a conscious decision. Our desires evolve and develop over time based on our experiences and environment.

Humanity isn't solely defined by biology; we're shaped by a variety of factors, with our surroundings influencing who we become. The notion of homosexuality as taboo needs to be challenged - it's not about being "normal" or following some rigid standard. Each person has the right to love and be loved, regardless of their sexual orientation.

For me, it's not about being born gay or straight - I see myself as a human being with the freedom to express myself, discover my preferences, and above all, to love and be loved.


 

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